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Divorce statistics on the rise for elderly population

A growing number of senior citizens are ending decades-long marriages, according to recent trends. The prevalence of divorce among New York residents and Americans across the country aged 65 and up is on the rise. Experts are citing many reasons for this unusual trend that appears to buck conventional marriage statistics.

 

According to studies conducted by national research institutes, the number of divorcees over the age of 50 has doubled since 1990. Theories about why this trend has become so popular have abounded. They range from lowered importance placed on faith- or religiously-based rules about divorce, to the increase of women with careers, to a simple influx of elderly people thanks to the retirement of the baby boomer generation.

Same-sex divorce in New York mitigated by residency requirements

Same-sex marriage has been legally recognized in this state since 2011. However, a same-sex divorce fares differently here in New York. Based on the laws of residency, it may not be possible for a married couple to seek a divorce even if they were married here.

Residency requirements in New York state are not actually required for a marriage to take place here, but they are required if the couple that wishes to terminate their marriage. In the case of divorce, the requirements are fourfold. Essentially, one spouse must have been a resident of New York for a year prior to the start of divorce proceedings. Moreover, the marriage must have taken place here, and both spouses must be current residents.

Prenuptial agreement a good idea according to older investors

Once upon a time the idea of marriage conjured images of life-long commitment. Today, when nearly half of all marriages end in divorce, many New York couples are looking toward their futures with a greater degree of caution, though signing a prenuptial agreement seems to still be somewhat taboo. However, many high-asset investors, especially those of a certain age, are urging people to take a second look at how a prenuptial agreement can help secure their financial future.

It is true that nearly half of all polled investors under the age of 40 agree with the idea that a prenuptial agreement can help protect existing assets, but the younger investors also believe even talking about a prenup with a potential spouse can cast a negative pall on a marriage before it even begins. Not so according to their elders. Over sixty percent of investors over the age of 61 highly recommend a prenup to all couples.

Maintaining control of finances important in divorce

It's a well-known fact that divorce isn't just emotionally draining, it can be financially devastating as well. New York residents facing divorce must make complicated decisions that may have a prominent effect on their financial future. That's why it is important for both parties involved in a divorce to take control of their own finances in a responsible, meaningful way.

Often, married couples tend to share a lot, and that includes finances. Many couples share credit cards, checking and savings accounts, and other forms of financial assets. In the early stages of a divorce, it is a good idea to start to divide those assets into clearly-established "yours" and "mine" categories, by closing out joint credit and checking accounts and re-establishing those assets in your own names. This will help to avoid confusion and possible overlap of costs as the divorce progresses, and of course will limit an ex-spouse's control over your finances.

Statistics on same-sex divorce difficult to come by

As more and more states begin adopting civil union legislation offering similar marriage rights to same-sex couples, it follows that more of these couples will also earn and utilize the right to end those unions. In New York and other states where same-sex marriage is legal, however, the statistics on same-sex divorce are incomplete. The reason, according to experts, is simple rarity.

Same-sex marriage is still a relatively new concept for many states, and the fact remains that heterosexual couples have been getting legally married and divorced for exponentially longer than their homosexual counterparts. The statistics that deal with heterosexual relationships, however, may not coincide with what similar statistics could tell us about the same-sex unions. At present, no gender is recorded in divorce cases, so the information is difficult to extract from existing statistics.

Country star files for divorce

Country music star Jason Aldean has recently filed for divorce from his longtime partner, Jessica Ussery. New York country music fans may already be familiar with Aldean, the relative unknown musician who came to prominence back in 2011 when his debut album met with rave reviews. Since then, his marriage, which began in 2001, has broken down to the point where the divorce is actively being pursued.

The court order lists "irreconcilable differences" as the primary reason for the filing. Aldean came under scrutiny last year when he was photographed in compromising scenarios with American Idol star, Brittany Kerr. The photographs prompted a wave of negative feedback from fans on social media platforms and culminated in formal apologies issued by both parties. However, it seems the apologies weren't enough to rectify the problems at home for the well-known star.

Divorce settlement looms for Kardashian

What began as a celebrity match made in heaven is finally approaching a resolution as noted reality star Kim Kardashian prepares to finalize her divorce settlement with estranged husband, NBA star Kris Humphries. The divorce, which has captivated New York fans of both the TV show and the sport, has been in negotiation since 2011. The couple was married in August of that year, but the relationship quickly deteriorated, resulting in Kardashian filing for divorce before the year was out.

The terms of the settlement have not been disclosed to the public, but the court has granted marriage dissolution to both parties. Humphries had originally objected to the traditional divorce arrangement, claiming the marriage had strictly been designed to garner press for "Keeping Up With the Kardashians," his estranged wife's reality show. However, Kardashian's desire for a divorce was granted by the courts, though the divorce will not be finalized until all of the paperwork has been signed.

No-fault law in New York leads to rising divorce numbers

Attorneys in New York are reporting increased numbers of divorce cases in recent months, according to experts. Many are crediting New York's no-fault divorce law in this changing trend, citing less-stringent requirements on separating couples to prove that their relationship is irretrievable. Central New York has seen over 2500 divorces this year alone: its highest statistic in almost a decade.

Some divorce attorneys are pointing to less strict divorce requirements brought on by the law, including the removal of cruel and unusual treatment as a stipulation for divorce to be allowed. No-fault divorce allows couples to file without having to provide details of their relationship's breakdown; they need only prove the relationship has become "irretrievably" broken within a six-month span. The no-fault law entered common use in 2010.

How to identify an invalid prenuptial agreement

Recently, in New York, a judge threw out a prenuptial agreement that had been signed over 10 years ago. This may have caused some people to wonder if the agreements they signed remain valid. A prenuptial agreement is increasingly common, even for couples that don't have large amounts of wealth. These types of agreements properly divide finances, property and even pets.

The prenup at issue was presumably thrown out because there were issues with the initial agreement, and it was thus ruled invalid. If a spouse fails to disclose or misrepresent their assets, this could negate the contract completely. Both spouses have to be of sound mind and not under mental duress or stress at the time they sign the document.

Kevin Hart learns from his mistakes, child support required

Spouses often make many mistakes while married which may eventually lead to a breakup of the marriage. Often, these mistakes have to do with spouses not being completely honest with each other about one issue or another. It is sometimes difficult for a divorcee in New York or elsewhere to admit his or her mistakes and learn from the experience. However, this is what happened after actor Kevin Hart's divorce, which resulted in him having to pay monthly child support.

The actor admitted in an interview with Ebony magazine that he had constantly lied to his wife for a period of time while being married to her. However, he indicated that he has learned from his mistakes and that the painful experience of ending his marriage helped him to reflect upon himself. The actor says that the hardship has helped him become a better person and that he now has a completely different perspective on relationships.

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